200 Billion….That’s Billion…with a B! OMG!

It’s MY BIRTHDAY next week!!!! Yeah Baby! 46!!!!!! I love it!!!!!

Birthdays are my freaking-favorite!!!!! EEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!! Such a celebration!

Ok, so I have to say that Paul has, once again, been outta control for my birthday month this year! Oh yeah, I celebrate all month! (you should too….WTF, comeon!)

And when he didn’t want me to feel “deprived” on my birthday because I’m staying away from sugar, he had my favorite sugar-free chocolate delivered to me (it’s Antidote by the way)!

DAMN! He is so good! I love this man!!!

Well, it wasn’t always this way. I can remember YEARS of birthday disappointments. Years where I would schedule my own birthday get-togethers and still be disappointed that it wasn’t everything I wanted it to be.

You might be thinking……”lucky you, you got Paul”.
NO WAY! Not true! …..

Everything Paul has done for me this month is all stuff that Paul NEVER EVER EVER would have done for me even just 10 years ago! Back then, Paul’s idea of a birthday celebration was picking up a card at CVS on his way home from work.

He LEARNED how to do this for me! We created a relationship where this is possible!

We didn’t just FIND this….we created it!

When things SUCKED in our relationship, I didn’t just sit around waiting for things to get better or looking to Paul to FIX IT….I took action!

When things were OK, but not phenomenal in our relationship….I didn’t lie to myself and tell myself things will get better when XYZ happens….I did something about it to create the relationship I wanted!

And today….when things are AMAZING in our relationship….I don’t just rest on my laurels and COAST…. I love and treasure my relatinship, and happily take it to the next level all the time!

Today you are living in EXACTLY the relationship that you created.

I know, that’s harsh! And it’s also 100% truth.

You created the relationship you are living in today, through your thoughts, decisions and actions of yesterday!

And tomorrow, you will be living in the relationship that you are creating through your thoughts, decisions and actions today!

That’s how relationship really works!

And that’s also great news!  It’s EMPOWERING!

It means…..you didn’t necessarily pick wrong! You don’t have to wait around for things to “get better”! You don’t have to wait for your partner to change! You don’t have to convince your partner to do things differently! And you don’t have to settle for how things are!


You are just lacking the tools and strategies that really work…and the education to empower you to clearly see the currently invisible forces that are creating the relationships that you have today.

I know you don’t mean to create the Kerfuffle and challenges in the relationships that you are in today….but you are doing it, unintentionally! (everything we were told…. was crap…. it didn’t work and it left us in this mess we are in today. it’s not your fault!)

No one ever gave you a Relationship Education.

No one ever taught you how to create a rock solid relationship with your partner where NOTHING and NO ONE can ever come between you!

No one ever taught you how to have a ravishing-hot-sexually-explosive passion and desire with your partner 10, 20, 40 years into your relationship!

No one ever taught you!

And my guess is….no one modeled it for you either!

Well Paul and I are here to change all that!

It’s a WHOLE NEW game! Relationship Development! Something you haven’t tried before because no one ever taught you.

We are changing the way relationship is done.

We are on a mission! Are you with us?

Look – if you are not living in your unshakable love and unleashed passion then you are not living your best life! Period!

The most important relationship of your life is your love relationship!

(and if you are reading this thinking….no, it’s my kids….then you better get your ass to our Relationship Breakthrough Retreat event! Because loving your kids is SUPER important…..but your kids are not the most significant relationship in your life my darling…you will always be their PARENT, but you will NOT parent them forever! They will, and should, move on to become independent and autonomous individuals in the world. They will LEAVE your every-day world. They better!

The most significant relationship of your lifetime is your forever love relationship! It’s scary, I know – but that’s the truth!

And LOVE is the juice of LIFE! It’s what you are here on this planet to do! This is not a dress-rehearsal Lovie! This is your LIFE! And your LOVE relationship is the most significant relationship of your lifetime!)

And how much time, energy and resources have you dedicated to mastering your love relationship?

In the US alone, over $200 BILLION dollars EACH year is spent on DIVORCE! That’s Billion….with a “B”! (every year!)

And how much are we investing in giving ourselves the Relationship Education that is needed to learn how to navigate a REAL relationship, in real life, with kids and work and house and families-of-origin???

You tell me! What has it been for YOU?

As my friend, mentor and coach, Tony Robbins says “When would NOW be a good time?”

Well, I’m here to help! This is what I do…all day-every day!

So I have a GIFT and an OPPORTUNITY for you!


Paul and I are doing a Free LIVE Online Training Class next Thursday (June 15th) for my Birthday!!

“What is Your Unshakable Love Score?”

…Get Your Unshakable Love Assessment & Solution Roadmap on this live training class with Stacey & Paul

Thursday, June 15, 2017 at Noon Eastern

REGISTER: http://webinar.relationshipdevelopment.org 

On this live class, Paul and I will teach you….

  1. The most powerful force in human relationship today and how to get it to work FOR you instead of against you.
  2. The real “villain” in your relationship that is bringing you down every day (and how to eliminate it from your life forever)
  3. FINALLY: A personalized unshakable love assessment that will show you exactly where you are on the unshakable love roadmap today and a proven step by step solution to get you to your unshakable love!

There are only 300 seats available for Thursday’s Live Training!


Come to Relationship Breakthrough Retreat Live Event Experience July 31 – August 2 in Princeton New Jersey!

Join me and Paul for this 3-day live immersion event and catapult your relationship to the next level! Take ACTION! Get the relationship education you deserve! Transform your relationships beyond what you thought was possible…in just 3 days! Click here for details: http://RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com

This is NOT A COUPLE’S EVENT! You do NOT need to convince your partner to come.

  • Are you ready to TAKE ACTION?
  • Are you ready to create your unshakable love and unleashed passion?
  • Are you ready to STOP SUFFERING unnecessarily???

Then join us for 3 days!!! 3 days to change your life! This is an incredible opportunity!

Tomorrow, you will be living in the exact relationship that you create with your thoughts, decisions and actions of today.


Think Differently…

Yep, there are a million reasons why it’s not convenient or easy to come to this 3 day live event. And THAT is exactly the kind of thinking that has created the relationships that you are in right now.

Watch what Kelly said about changing her thinking and finally attending Relationship Breakthrough Retreat….. (scroll down for Kelly’s video) http://RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com

Think Differently!

Make a New Decision…

Yep, you could choose to read this email, feel the PULL that this is the right thing for you, and then DECIDE to do nothing.

But what about August 4th? If you make that same old decision, what will your relationship be like on August 4th?

If you make a NEW decision, and come to Relationship Breakthrough Retreat….YOU and YOUR relationship will be transformed on August 4th! I guarantee it!!!

YES, I guarantee it! Check out the guarantee… http://RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com

Make a New Decision!

Take Proven Action…

Yep, you could keep doing what you’ve been doing and keep getting what you’ve been getting.

But don’t you WANT MORE!?!?!

Thousands of people have transformed their relationships and their lives by doing this work with us! If you want the kinds of results that we are enjoying, then take the PROVEN action that we took to get the same results for YOURSELF!

Watch their stories here: http://RelationshipBreakthroughRetreat.com

Take Proven Action!

Only you know what is best for you! Instead of listening to your fears and anger….what does your gut say??

If you feel pulled, that maybe Relationship Breakthrough Retreat might be right for you, send us an email so we can hear more about your situation and see if we can help! [email protected]

Sending love