Have you ever wondered HOW to stop your compulsive need to control everyone and everything? (It causes so much ‘kerfuffle’ in your relationships, yet it seems so hard to stop!!)
I get asked this question all the time, and in today’s 5 minute video, I’m sharing the solution!
Here is the truth: we can’t control anyone or anything else!
The most we can do is control (or ‘master’) ourselves; yet most of us spend all of our time trying to control everything and everyone around us, while ignoring the only thing we CAN do anything about: ourselves.
The problem is that people are just trying to ‘stop’ one behavior, without replacing it with another. The solution is to turn around and focus on mastering yourself.
In today’s video, I explain the 3 Key Elements to Self-Mastery:
- Up-level your ability to master your ‘state’
- Learn how to understand and up-level your internal blueprint (your ‘wiring’ for how you operate in life and relationships)
- Learn how to trust yourself to make great decisions in any situation and find the gift in every circumstance, by improving your decision making software.
Are you stuck in a pattern of ‘controlling’ behavior; constantly stressed out by feeling like you NEED for people and situations to go a certain way, in order for things to be ok?
You’re not alone sweetie!! And your behavior is perfectly normal, if no one ever taught you self-mastery skills
If you’re ready to stop the roller-coaster rider of fear, stress, anger and relationship turmoil that ensues from the need to control, we’d love to help you get ‘unstuck’!
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Or email us at [email protected] to talk about the opportunity to work with us on mastering yourself.
16 thoughts on “(video) surprising secret solution to your need to control”
Hi Stacey this just gets it said – brilliant 🙂 Just did a blog post today about stress and storytelling, which touched on the blueprint factor! Your point about trusting yourself to handle whatever comes up is so the answer! Big hug Tam
Thank you for sharing the gems and gold nuggets of you!
You are so welcome Shan!!! Thank you for sharing here with love!
Awesome Tam!!!! Big hug back to you love!
Master YOU. Yes, Stacey Martino!
so great! hits home! thanks for the perfect strategies!
Ah, yes, mastering YOU – easier said than done. Love the three points you share. Thank you, Stacey!
Yes Jeanne, it’s not easily done on one’s own…kind of like “giving yourself a great haircut”….not easy to do yourself 😉 So glad you loved this sweetie!!! MUAH!
You are so welcome Erin Reindl!!!! Thanks for posting here! muah!
Thank you Lisa Marie Rosati!!! I know that is something you focus on and I always admire your dedication to your own development sister!!! MUAH!
any kind of grounding.. nature, mediation, dancing.. 🙂
Awesome Connie! Thanks for sharing here!
Stacey, I love and appreciate the deconstruction of what “Self-Mastery” really means. So excited for the deep dive on Blueprints in St. Lucia!!
Whooo Hooooo! So excited for Breakthrough In Paradise St Lucia too Theresa!!!! We are taking a deep dive into your blueprint and helping you uplevel your wiring so you can create your life by design! See you at the beach baby!!!!! 2 weeks to go!
Just wondering if you can define “up-level” for me. Thanks!
TMI alert: Kegels physically remind me that I am a sexual being. Which gets my female creative energy flowing which moves me from fear to love. This allows me to be more “me” and more creative. So that’s how I’m going to raise my state when I notice it’s down.
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