The #1 Reason WHY Passion Fades

People come to us in all different phases of relationship…

But the two most COMMON phases of relationship where people SEEK OUT help are what we call…

“Hanging By A Thread”…

And “Passionless”.

“Hanging by a thread” is where one or both of you has thought about leaving – you may not necessarily want to leave but you’re not sure you can stay with the way things are, or you’re thinking about and planning your exit.

In a “Passionless” relationship, you’re not considering leaving – you have a good relationship, you parent well together, and you’re good friends – but you’re more like roommates…

There’s no passion, no heat, and no excitement anymore.

To a lot of people, the distance between Passionless and Hanging By A Thread can look and feel as big as the Grand Canyon…

But to me and Paul…

It’s the SAME RELATIONSHIP.

It’s kinda like that old joke: 

“What’s the difference between salad and garbage?”

Wait for it… It’s TIME! 

Given time, salad will eventually turn into garbage.

And it’s the SAME thing with the difference between a Passionless marriage and Hanging By A Thread.

The only difference there is TIME.

Let me explain…

When the passion fades in your relationship, over time that leads to discomfort.

It’s uncomfortable that you’re no longer having sex with the person you’re supposed to have sex with, and there’s no playfulness, intimacy, or hot sex anymore.

That discomfort starts to build… and the more it builds, it starts to feel like you’re being rejected by the only person you’re supposed to be able to have that kind of relationship with…

Eventually that rejection turns into resentment, until it feels like an insurmountable barrier to recover from.

There’s an EPIDEMIC of passionless relationships right now…

In episode 9 of The Relationship Transformer Podcast, Paul and I talk about why the passion fizzles in long-term relationships… and what YOU can do to fix it!

Click here for Episode #9 now!

We’ve proven that it only takes ONE partner to transform a relationship…ANY relationship! The question is – “How does ONE person do that?” This podcast is the answer!

Sending love,

Stacey & Paul